꿈을 꾸다
A Korean drama, "Me Too, Flower", I seem to unreasonably love just ended - last Wesnesday, actually. After the first half of it, I was so sure I'll somehow come to hate it, no thanks to annoying a pain-in-the-ass antagonists and a cycle of misunderstandings and making-ups, but in the end, the good parts were too hard to resist.
I asked myself countless times and wondered, "Why do I like this so much?" and I think that's because I can relate to Bong-sun. Sometimes I feel like I'm mildly depressed and indulge in fantasies way too much, just like her. I just want to love and be loved, too. Simple.
There's a conversation between Bong-sun and her counsellor/therapist that I remember and think about frequently: she asks along the lines of "Why does that person act that way?" and the
counsellor doesn't give her an answer, but states that when people ask these questions, they're assuming that the other person's at fault, leaving themselves out of the equation.
Hmm, well I'm not too sure if someone who just read that understood what the conversation was about, but it was one that made me think about myself. Basically, the counsellor's trying to hint Bong-sun that she's being judgemental and not self-reflecting.
I asked myself countless times and wondered, "Why do I like this so much?" and I think that's because I can relate to Bong-sun. Sometimes I feel like I'm mildly depressed and indulge in fantasies way too much, just like her. I just want to love and be loved, too. Simple.
There's a conversation between Bong-sun and her counsellor/therapist that I remember and think about frequently: she asks along the lines of "Why does that person act that way?" and the
counsellor doesn't give her an answer, but states that when people ask these questions, they're assuming that the other person's at fault, leaving themselves out of the equation.
Hmm, well I'm not too sure if someone who just read that understood what the conversation was about, but it was one that made me think about myself. Basically, the counsellor's trying to hint Bong-sun that she's being judgemental and not self-reflecting.
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